The world needs Poly Speed Dating!

There is no reason that the complexities of non-monogamy should prevent us from engaging in the celebrated act of SPEED DATING. Our system takes into account sexual orientation, gender identity, and age. It also allows for couples and trios to date together. During registration, people can indicate a wide variety of sexualities and genders that they are looking for. Our intent is to create a space that is inclusive and celebratory of all people.

And so far we have more than 100 people registered, and counting.

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Our next event

Saturday, June 3rd, 2017

All profits will be donated to the Network / la Red, a survivor-led, social justice organization that works to end partner abuse in lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, BDSM, polyamorous, and queer communities.

Event Details:

      Held at Spontaneous Celebrations, Jamaica PLain
      45 Danforth Street
      Saturday, June 3rd, 2017
      Doors open at 6:00pm for food and registration (tentative)
      Doors close at 7:30pm with dating beginning at 8:00
      There will be a wine and beer (pay) bar and some snacks.
      $16 per person if you pre-register, $25 at the door.
      Each registration comes with a drink ticket good for a drink of up to $6 in value.
      No person turned away for lack of funds--please contact us!

Getting There: Parking can be a pain, but public transit is good (the Stony Brook stop on the Orange Line is mere blocks away). We strongly advocate using public transportation.

About the food and drink: We will provide some snacks but not really a full dinner. There will be a bar with beer, wine, water and soda. Alcohol will be charged.

Accessability: There is a wheelchair ramp and the restrooms are also accessible. That being said, we have heard that the ramp is difficult to navigate without an additional person helping out. Our volunteers will be available for this purpose. Feel free to email us with any additional questions or concerns. We can also arrange for more limited mobility during the event itself.



Registration options (click on the one for you):

Prior Registrant - You have attended a previous Poly Speed Dating event with us in Boston. This will take you to the log-in page.

Individual - You may or may not have relationships at the moment, but you want to meet potential new partners.

Group - You are in an existing relationship with each other, and are looking for someone(s) together.



Yes! This whole shebang started in San Francisco. Go here to participate in Bay Area events.



No, it's not impossible. Now that we have a workable system and experience, we are happy to chat about how you can do this for your favorite city, suburb or township. Send us mail!